Friday, January 25, 2008

The hardest decision of my Life


Recently my mother died, that was so hard for me and my family. She was sick the two last weeks, and she was in the hospital. All the family stayed with my father, sister and my brother; and they helped to watch and care for her. They took turns to watch her. All her sisters and brothers helped to care.

She was in Mexico, but I was in the US. I wanted to be with her, but I made the decision to stay here for my legal situation. Every day when I was talking with my father or my big sister, I was asking if she was better, but she wasn't better.

Four days after the first problem from my mom, the doctors said my mom had pneumonia and that's not good for my mom. After twelve days, she died.

Two days before she died my daughters and me talked to her by the phone, and she was sleeping because her brain didn't work, but when my Uncle Pedro (her brother) put the cellphone near her ears, she opened her eyes and my daughters and I talked to her. I don't know if she believed all what we promised and said, but when we finished, she closed her eyes and she slept again.

We together gave to my mother a beautiful Memorial, (all of them together, but not me). I was making that decision with the support and by support of them, that was so hard for me. We don't know if that's fine. I'm thinking when we have to make what's the best decision, it is the decision where you can put all your love.

I wish with all my heart she is better now, because she was so sick not only the last days, but also her last years.

38 comments:

Anonymous said...

Julieta I'm sorry for this moment in your life, it is horrible, I hope you will be better, I know how you feel....Gad bless you

Anonymous said...

Julieta...Your story really touched my heart. My daughter-in-law, Young Ok, is from Korea and her mother is quite old and ill. I see how hard it is for her to stay here right now. She will visit her mother and family in the summer and I pray that her mother is still alive then. Thank you for sharing such a deep and personal story.

Anonymous said...

Thank you for sharing such a personal story Julieta. I know that its's a hard thing to do as here has also been alot of death in my life recently. I wish you and family much love during this hard time.

Anonymous said...

Hi, Julieta I'm sorry. These are a of the things impredictables who can happen and some times we can't made nothing but, it's so difficult if we can't stay with the people who loves. I hope you feel better and think what your Mom stay in a beautiful place now.

Anonymous said...

I know how hard is to loose our mothers, and not be there with them in those moments, just think she is in a better place, and now she is with you at all times.

Anonymous said...

Hi!!...Julieta I'm so sorry about your mother's Death. I do knew how hard it is losing someone you love very much. especially your own parent. I lost my dad 2o+ some years ago.still hurt it by my heart so bad, because I wasn't there when he passaway I couldn't be there for him. I was in the U.S., but my dad with me every day in my heart very special place. I'm sure your mom is with you too.

Anonymous said...

Dear Julieta; Woa! When I read your story I felt all you love and emocion.It is so hard to me understand the life but you know what? You are a wonderfull deauther and you bring the better of you.

Anonymous said...

Julieta I'm sorry. I know it is hard to loose someone we love.I lost my sister two years ago, she was young,she left a baby daughter.I wasn't with her when she died. I share the same feelings.God bless you.

Anonymous said...

your english is very good, better that my english so congratulations
your brother Jaime

Anonymous said...

Hola Julieta, soy Lucy, acabo de leer tus escritos y, permiteme felicitarte por la forma tan correcta de escribir en ingles y por compartir tus pensamientos y sentimientos con todos los que llegamos a leerlos. Tambien aprovecho de compartir contigo estos momentos tan gratos que estamos pasando aqui con mi Papa, Socorro y su familia y Jaime y su familia; no estas con nosotros fisicamente pero en el corazon te llevamos siempre, porque eres parte de nosotros, echale muchas ganas y sigue progresando en el ingles, tu puedes.

Anonymous said...

A veces no es facil expresar lo que se siente, tu eres una mujer muy fuerte porque puedes hacerlo y eres capaz de conmover a mucha gente al expresarte, gracias por compartir esto, tu hermana Soco.

Anonymous said...

I am able to make link exchange with HIGH pr pages on related keywords like [url=http://www.usainstantpayday.com]bad credit loans[/url] and other financial keywords.
My web page is www.usainstantpayday.com

If your page is important contact me.
please only good pages, wih PR>2 and related to financial keywords
Thanks
Zemiesiacal

Anonymous said...

INSERT

Anonymous said...

[url=http://www.thecasino.co.il/tr/casino.htm]internet casino[/url] , [url=http://www.casinoonlinebrazil.com/blackjack]cassino[/url] , [url=http://www.onlinecasinorussian.com/casino-reviews]online casinos[/url]. [url=http://www.ttittancasino.com/online-roulette.html]blackjack[/url].

Anonymous said...

[url=http://buyxanax860.webs.com/]buy xanax no prescription + canada[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax209.webs.com/]can you buy xanax canada[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax975.webs.com/]where to buy xanax in cozumel[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax859.webs.com/]xanax without prescriptions cheap[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax872.webs.com/]buy xanax powder[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax948.webs.com/]buy xanax denver[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax117.webs.com/]where to order xanax[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax450.webs.com/]buy xanax online in usa[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax642.webs.com/]can you buy xanax australia[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax280.webs.com]buy xanax online with a prescription[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax780.webs.com/]buy drugs online xanax[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax216.webs.com/]can you buy xanax online in australia[/url]
[url=http://buyxanax207.webs.com/]buy cheapest xanax[/url]

Anonymous said...

xanax 0.5mg what is xanax used for recreation - xanax generic 029

Anonymous said...

zolpidem 10 mg zolpidem tartrate side effects hallucinations - side effects of generic zolpidem

Anonymous said...

buy valium online valium medication dosage - buy valium spain

Anonymous said...

buy xanax xanax side effects/contraindications - best place buy xanax online

Anonymous said...

valium sale valium side half life - buy valium online with overnight delivery

Anonymous said...

buy lorazepam online side effects generic ativan - best place buy ativan

Anonymous said...

xanax online long until xanax withdrawal - makers generic xanax

Anonymous said...

buy diazepam diazepam 7.5 - where can i buy valium online usa

Anonymous said...

generic soma online carisoprodol wiki - carisoprodol and alcohol

Anonymous said...

online pharmacy for valium valium high last - buy valium in uk

Anonymous said...

buy soma buy soma online no prescription needed - buy soma cheap online

Anonymous said...

buy soma soma medication abuse - carisoprodol 350 mg high

Anonymous said...

buy somas online buy soma watson - 5513 dan carisoprodol drug

Anonymous said...

order carisoprodol online carisoprodol other uses - aura soma reading online

Anonymous said...

generic valium pill identifier buy roche valium online - side effects to valium

Anonymous said...

malaysia sex dating club http://loveepicentre.com/advice.php dating match girls boys

Anonymous said...

lds ebook download http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/es/authors/?letter=A&page=42 michael webb ebook [url=http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/Media-Firms-Structures-Operations-and-Performance/p225574/]buy resale license to ebook[/url] ebook marketing online

Anonymous said...

zinio ebook http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/authors/?letter=Ei&page=5 richards nunan ebook torrent [url=http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/American-on-Purpose-The-Improbable-Adventures-of-an-Unlikely-Patriot/p24716/]runt ebook[/url] bishop book 7 ebook
[url=http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/Marius-Ueffing/m82495/][img]http://audiobooksworld.co.uk/image/8.gif[/img][/url]

Anonymous said...

Very rapidly this website will be famous among all blogging and site-building viewers, due to it's nice posts

My blog post - Altgold verkaufen

Anonymous said...

[url=http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/pletal.htm][img]http://onlinemedistore.com/9.jpg[/img][/url]
specialty pharmacy char http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/cialis-professional.htm canadian online pharmacy prices [url=http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/categories/arthritis.htm]pharmacy silagra penegra silagra cumwithus com0[/url]
stop and shop pharmacy http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/categories/healthy-bones.htm canadian pharmacy for pets [url=http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/paxil.htm]paxil[/url]
seattle compounding pharmacy http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/hard-on-oral-jelly.htm james pharmacy ron saporito [url=http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/silagra.htm]supercritical pharmacy[/url]
pharmacy summer programs http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/omnicef.htm tramadol on line pharmacy [url=http://certifiedpharmacy.co.uk/products/fincar.htm]fincar[/url]

Anonymous said...

[url=http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/lozol.htm][img]http://onlinemedistore.com/1.jpg[/img][/url]
walmart pharmacy spanaway wa http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/vigora.htm unresolved issues in pharmacy pdf [url=http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/imuran.htm]no frills fort erie canada pharmacy[/url]
fruths pharmacy middleport ohio http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/aricept.htm postgraduate degree in clinical pharmacy [url=http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/generic-motrin.htm]generic motrin[/url]
online pharmacy with no membership fee http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/levlen.htm tennessee pharmacy laws [url=http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/plan-b.htm]discount krogers pharmacy[/url]
national pharmacy technician http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/xplode--stamina--energy-and-sex-enhancer-.htm purchase ovestinr online pharmacy [url=http://englandpharmacy.co.uk/products/exelon.htm]exelon[/url]

Anonymous said...

You really make it seem so easy with yοur presentatіοn but I finԁ
thіѕ matter to bе aсtually ѕomethіng thаt I thinκ I wоuld nevеr underѕtand.
It seemѕ tοo comρlеx and еxtremelу broad foг
me. I'm looking forward for your next post, I'll trу to get thе hаng of іt!


Alѕo visit my ωeblоg :: reputation management seo

Anonymous said...

great expectations dating service http://loveepicentre.com/success_stories/ free online dating gae
anastaisa dating [url=http://loveepicentre.com/]number one internet dating service[/url] str dating
russian dating scams svetlana [url=http://loveepicentre.com/articles/]free dating service single dating[/url] chicago dating samir alsaraf [url=http://loveepicentre.com/user/Some1Stylish/]Some1Stylish[/url] 100 free trials religius dating sites